love is blindness

Maria's husband is blind. He is older than her.
He loves her and he accepts her exactly like she is.
He doesn't control her... you might say: because he can't.
-sure, he is blind- but besides that or exactly for that reason he lets her do what she wants, probably because he is afraid to loose her.
He couldn't go on with his life if she goes.
while she is far away from him, he can´t see what she does with other men

Maria's lover is a famous painter. He is elder than her.
He loves her madly and he doesn't accept her like she is.
He hopes, he wishes from the bottom of his heart that she is exactly like him*
He controls her at every time and when they are together, he passes from the love to hate, from hate to love**
He can see, but he is blind for the love, for the passion, for the desperation and the jealousies.
He couldn't go on with his life if she goes... or could he?
while she is far away from him , he can´t see what she does with other men, so he tortures himself trying to imagine, to think about all that she is doing with her husband or with another lovers.

What kind of blindness is the worst?

*dead eyes are you just like me? (Smashing Pumpkins)

**love/hate/love (Alice in chains)